In Victorian times, a death in the family affected many areas of normal daily life. The museum contains an example of this; samples of writing paper and envelopes with thick black borders used by relatives for all correspondence during the mourning period. The width of the border was said to be determined by the depth and time duration of the mourning and mourning etiquette. [Richardson, 1989: 106] The first set of paper, in two sizes and envelopes were donated by Mrs James Blackwood in 1941. The paper and envelopes dated from the late nineteenth or early twentieth century. You can see this object in the drawer C.122.B in the Court of the Museum. The second set of mourning envelopes were given by Kate and Joseph Grafton Milne in 1944 and had been used by Arthur John Evans (1851-1941), the erstwhile Director of the Ashmolean Museum after the death of his wife, Margaret in 1893. [1944.9.129].
Ruth Richardson 1989 'Why was death so big in Victorian Britain' in Ralph Houlbrooke [ed] Death, Ritual and Bereavement Routledge, London